Facesitting As Objectification
What is Queening or Facesitting? Simply put, queening is when a Femdom sits on her submissive’s face. She does this for sexual purposes or to remind the sub who is really in control in the relationship.
Queening, or throning as it is also known, can be a very intimate encounter between two people. Especially so if the Mistress chooses to be naked and to have the sub incorporate pussy and/or ass worship into the session.
On the other hand, queening can also be very humiliating and objectifying if the Mistress chooses to make it so. She may use facesitting objectification as a punishment for a wayward sub. Or she may use it simply because erotic humiliation turns her, her sub, or both of them on.
What’s So Objectifying About Throning?
How can a Mistress use throning in an objectifying way? There are actually several ways that she may do this. Perhaps the most basic way for her to objectify her sub with queening is to sit on his face fully clothed. Why? So that he can’t lick or worship her nether regions while he lies beneath her.
In addition to denying him this pleasure, if she chooses the standard facesitting position, which puts her looking away from his body while she parks herself on his face, she can more or less ignore him completely. In this way, he becomes nothing more to her than a piece of furniture, a place for her to rest her body.
She may choose to bind his hands and feet in order to heighten his sense of helplessness. Of course, she may just leave him unbound while she uses his face as her stool. It can be very humiliating for a slave to be used as furniture…and very arousing as well.
Facesitting – When Queening Gets Even More Humiliating
Sometimes, however, just using a man as furniture is not quite enough for the Femdom Mistress. If she wants to increase the humiliation level even more, she may decide to remove the clothes on the lower half of her body. Or else just take off her panties and hike her skirt up before she sits down on her sub’s face. At first, this may seem like a regular queening session. But it’s the way she treats him while she’s sitting there that distinguishes it from any other form of facesitting.
If she ignores him, as described above, while he’s worshipping her ass and pussy, it’s most certainly a form of objectification. Her lack of response can be awfully humiliating. After all, the sub underneath her is trying his best to please her.
If he doesn’t get any sort of feedback after a while, he may start to think he’s completely unable to satisfy her. This type of objectification goes along very well with small penis humiliation. Basically, the Mistress can make her sub feel like he’s as inadequate at oral Femdom body worship as he is at sex!
Just Your Mistress’s Office Chair
This is doubly true if she does something else that’s completely unrelated to sex while she sits on his face. She might enjoy reading or watching TV while sitting there and totally ignoring him. The sub, of course, will be humiliated by the fact that the book or the television appears to be more engrossing than his oral ministrations.
Another possibility for objectification during throning is the Mistress using the sub’s face as her chair while she’s working. Of course, this will require privacy. She will either have to work from home or else bring work home with her from the office. It is quite humbling for a man to be used as a piece of furniture while his Mistress completes her work for the day.
It’s even more humbling when he’s trying his best to orally please her while she works. He’ll feel very objectified when the only sound he hears from her is the “tap, tap,” of her fingers on the keyboard. Or her “professional” voice as she talks on the phone to her colleagues or clients.
There are, of course, many other ways that a Femdom can use queening as a form of objectification. We have only listed a few of them here. Which are your favorites?