Femdom Face Sitting Vs. Femdom Smothering

Do you know the difference between Femdom facesitting and Femdom smothering? Let me break it down for you…

My slave’s face is my favorite seat. As a matter of fact, one of the prerequisites of being my slave is how well they are able to bring me pleasure in this position. So after some months of intense training in all the areas in which they are expected and demanded to perfect, their last test is how well they function and perform on me. Now understand, I always have an orgasm no matter how this technique is done, but I do have preferences to how it is done.

Oral Slave Duties to Prove You are Worthy

First, a note on training my slaves. Face sitting is last thing I have them do before they are full slaves. They are told that this will be among the many duties that they will have to be my full time slave. They have months of training in how to correctly address me and how to serve me and what I expect of them in public and in private.

They are trained in what I expect when they are allowed to be my foot stool or my lamp. By the time we get to the face sitting part of being my slave, I know that they will be good slaves and they know how to behave with me. If I have to whip a slave’s ass into shape, face sitting will never be one of their duties.

The next thing I have to say about face sitting is about safety. I love face sitting and I will do smothering under certain controlled situations. I like to use a smothering box for these situations. I had one such box specially made for me that I was assured was properly ventilated.

I don’t even own any other type, so the slaves can’t whine that they don’t want to use it. I don’t want to have to think about anything other than my own pleasure at these times. If I have to worry that my slave is choking or is having trouble breathing then it ruins everything.

So no matter how much the slave wants to have the full smothering experience, I tell them that this is about me, the Mistress and what I want. I’m not having my orgasm ruined by some damn slave passing out due to lack of oxygen at the wrong moment.

Femdom Smothering in the Smother Box

That being said, I like to use my smothering box more than I like to just sit on a slave’s face, much for the reasons mentioned above, but also because I don’t have to use those muscles so vitally important to a good orgasm to hold myself above their face.

With the smothering box I just sit down and enjoy myself. Since my intention is rarely to fully smother a slave in that situation, I usually kneel over the slave’s face without fully sitting on them for my pleasure.

I have never found a way to absolutely sit on a slave’s face without breathing issues, so those muscles have to be used. And again if they bitch that they want to be smothered, I tell them that this is about me, not them.

Not familiar with a smother box? Let me explain. A smother box is a box with a hole on top and one on the side. The receiving person sits on the top hole, while the slave giving the pleasure lies on his back and slides his head in the side hole.

My box has no part to push down to hold his neck in place and no lock. This doesn’t mean that I am a lenient Mistress in any way. I just don’t want a ruined orgasm and a non-responsive slave.

To Recap: Femdom Facesitting vs. Femdom Smothering

I have had some great experiences both with the smother box and without it. It depends on my mood and the slave I’m using at the time. Some are so good that it doesn’t matter how I have them do it. Others are good, but not great. Also, I am not against the traditional model of smother box.

It just requires too much attention on the part of the very preoccupied Mistress to make it worth it to me. If I’m not preoccupied, the slave isn’t doing their task correctly and I’m not enjoying myself anyway. Woe be the slave who finds himself in this position.

I hope that I have helped in the understanding of face sitting and smothering, as well as the differences between the two practices and the safety issues involved. I also hope that I have let you know how satisfying face sitting actually is.

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